3 Points to Ponder
- Apologies foster healing, opening the door to forgiveness and reconciliation. As you look back at your last season, how has your spirit of forgiveness been?
- Growth occurs when responsibility is taken, creating a positive ripple. How have you owned your past to be able to move towards forgiveness of yourself and others?
- Forgiveness is a choice, but healing is the reward. Nothing is easy about forgiveness, but it is the best path to a positive future. Whom do you need to forgive to bring about healing?
2 Quotes to Share
“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” -Mahatma Gandhi
“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that prisoner was you.” -Lewis B. Smedes
1 Story of Impact
On September 30, 2014, the unthinkable happened. A trusted friend betrayed us, leading to the loss of our Haitian campus and angry protests in Savanette. I remember feeling sucker-punched by the whole experience as my stomach churned and disbelief clouded my mind. How could this happen? It all seemed so evil. Deep reflection revealed cracks in my leadership. I had ignored past integrity issues in that leader and because of that, when it all exploded, it caused immense hurt to so, so many people. In January 2016, we held our first Servant Leadership Conference, with 10 representatives from the community of Savanette attending. At the end of our time together, I called them all up and said three of the most powerful words in the English language: I… am… sorry. Asking for their forgiveness, we sealed the day with me doing a trust fall into their arms as the crowd cheered – a moment etched in my memory. The power of “I love you” gets talked about a lot, but the power of “I am sorry” is often overlooked. To be People for Impact, we must learn to say I am sorry. Leading means you will get things wrong and not meet others’ expectations. It means hurting others, intentionally or unintentionally. It comes with the job. As People for Impact, you have the power to bridge the divide through forgiveness or throw gas on the fire through justification. The power of “I’m sorry” isn’t just for leaders. It’s the bridge to healing every relationship.